have been with my boyfriend for two years but someone asked for my number and i said yes and didnt say i had a boyfriend. why?!?!?! i love my boyfriend so so much, he is my world. i just had a really awful day today and felt completely worthless so i guess it just felt really complimentary and became the highlight of my day.... how pathetic!! i even told him right after and said i got it for my friend... i feel disgusting. eugh. am i angry that he doesnt want to marry me at the moment? is that stupid??
anyone else done anything like this? x
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01-10-2011 #1Junior Member
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love my boyfriend but just gave my number to someone else..
Last edited by 123abc; 01-10-2011 at 01:27 PM.
that's what i did. i'm with my boyfriend for 2 years and 4 months. 1st december i started talking with someone. i think i love my boyfriend. my bf asked me to stop being a liar which i am now. and i just can't imagine life without my bf BUT i feel like i can't help it - i feel something to this "new one". i don't know what to do. i can't imagine both living without my bf and being with him. maybe i'm grown up ? or i'm used to him and i don't really love him ? don;t know..18, female, 5'8'',To G1: 8 pounds
I kind of did the same. I was so disappointed to my bf cause he never seemed to care at that time. So i met another guy, i wasnt even in love or anything but it made me feel good. Neither me, i cant imagine a life without him. and i did realize that in time... Think I just wanted to feel the new exitement of meeting someone i dont really know.. if u know what i mean....
The bottom line is, if you're willing to talk to someone else... you aren't actually happy with your relationship. I dated a guy for five years and at about the three year mark, saw my ex and started talking to him again. I cut it out and we persisted in another 2 long years of fighting and suspicion once I told him. I feel like it was such a waste of time and I gave up my own real desires because of the comfort and familiarity. My best advice is, tell your bf immediately and really evaluate if you are growing and being fulfilled by your relationship. There are other people out there and dating is fun anyway. You can love someone and not date them. I love a lot of people that I'm not in relationships with. Ha"Let the beauty you love be what you do."
I did this maybe three years ago or so. I was working at Target and this guy came through my line and asked me for my number. I gave it to him despite being with my boyfriend (now my husband) for two years. I was mad at him, and just did it because, like you felt, it was a compliment to me. Just because you did it doesn't mean you don't love your boyfriend; you were just flattered. Hopefully the boy you gave your number to will leave you alone after you explain you have a boyfriend and are not interested (mine didn't however, and would check up on me for the next two years to see if I was still in a relationship). You said you're upset that he doesn't want marrige at the moment, so maybe you were just a bit mad and did it to show him that other guys want you so maybe he should take your relationship more seriously.I've bled and I'd bleed to please you