I still care about this guy I was 'involved' with for the majority of last year. To cut a long stroy short I didn't really fit into his life at the time yet he thought it was okay for us to have fun and be close etc whilst he was still playing the field. Anyhow he eventually found someone more to his age and all so I kinda got the whole brish off (this wasn't the first time), anyhow now he post pics on fb of them and he brings her to places where I will be (we share a common hobby) and it just makes me sick.
I just can't deal witht he fact that he basically used me cos lets face it he did and now everything is alright and dandy for him.
This other guy likes me and I like him but only know him over the net yet if we meet up I'm afraid he wont like me and well part of it will just be to get back at this previously fella. I am just tired of feeling like this it makes me violently sick, what should I do?
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04-07-2009 #1
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I still care
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04-07-2009 #2
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seems like the other guy is a jerk and you can do better!
although it will feel hard to move on, you will find someone else who will make you fell better and you should forget about the other one.
if you start going out with this new guy (and all goes well) take him to the places the other guy goes with his new girlfriend, and make him jelous!
its been done to me before, and it feels gutting knowing he is with someone else when you still have feelings for him, but trust me, it should go away soon.
go ahead with meeting the guy you like, aslong asyour 100% he is genuine etc.
sam xo.
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04-08-2009 #3
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Thankyou sooo much for you reply Sam. I know I keep going on but it's like noone cares about my feelings so it's a big comfort to come on here and explain myself with others who have been in a similiar situation =)
Thankyou again lovely
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04-09-2009 #4
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Forget about this other guy. I know it is hard. and i know the feeling of feeling sick to your stomach even when you think about him or when you see him out you feel like the whole world is watching your every step and your head goes all funny and i know it sounds corny but your legs actually feel like wobbly and stuff. Get dressed up and go out with ur mates to a place you know he will be and find a new man...its the best way to get over him...and show him what he's missed out on. Dont go back to him no matter what even if he tells you he broke up with this girl and proposes to you! It will piss him off even more when he see's that you dont even care anymore!!
and for this new guy...be careful if youve never met him before dont put your hopes up just for then to be dissapointed!
Hope to have helped!
x x xOne day I will be thin enough.
Just the bones, no disfiguring flesh. Just the pure, clean shape of me, bones.
That is what we all are,
what we're made up of and everything else is just storage, deposit, waste.
Strip it away, use it up.
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04-10-2009 #5
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Thankyou
I don't know what I'd do without you people
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04-10-2009 #6
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I would say you can do better than this guy, but hopefully from the others you know that it is true, you can do so much better!
but this other guy, have you sent each other pics or anything? All i say is be really bloody careful and safe, Don't do it in a place where there are no other people around....somewhere public. And i bet your a beautiful girl, And he is interested in you for your personality, he will be feeling just exactly the same way as you.....scared that he doesnt look good enough for you, but i bet you like his personality just like he likes yours.
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