I am overweight BMI says so lol, but this isnt about me, it's my friend she is thin already but wants "to take up anorexia" she talks about it like a lifestyle not a disease any help on talking to her as she always says i'm taking sides please help., she always say "if you were a true friend you would stop with me" (reffering to food) and "you're a lad you wouldn't understand" Please please please help me!!!!!!
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04-29-2009 #1
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04-30-2009 #2
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my boyfriend said yesterday that he is worried about me and how much weight i have lost and until i get help and realise what im doing he just wants to be friends. I feel like i understand your friend because im doing it too. You are being a true friend by worrying, try and get your friend to talk to someone, it wont be easy but well worth it. You need your friend to understand that your not trying to hurt them, your just caring for them. Telling your friend they are thin wont help anything, honestly. Iv been on both sides of this before, the only thing that helped me was the shock that i was loosing my friends. It took a few months, i thought i didnt need my friends, i didnt need anyone, but you soon realise. Sorry if this is a crap reply lol.
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05-01-2009 #3
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Thankyou so much definately not a crap reply thanks very much will try to get her help thankyou!!!!!!!!!!!!