What do guys want!?

[anonymous]

Im finding it really hard to actually know what guys want, Anyone care to explain?
I dont want to just be a girl who guys get with, im not like that, i want something more then that. I deserve that surely? Do guys like skinny girls, curvey girls, nice or confident, i just dont know. I just feel like i want something and someone right now in my life and its just so hard to come by?

[CountingRibs]

Well hunni I don't really know what guys want tbh. I was jsut under the impression that guys want a thin tanned blonde who they can have sex with whenever they please, but as time goes on I have to say that not ALL guys want this. However I've just found that guys just like me for one thing and it's not flattering at all, except one guy who I'm sorta seeing now but things are complicated cos I dnt think I feel as much for him as he does for me but just don't want to hurt him.
I think the best person to ask is a guy, so if any guys on here wanna let us in on this then feel free cos I am intrigued also
xx

[Reid_man]

I'm gay so I don't know fir sure but I would say lean and confident...

[gluttonyisasin]

I figure that, just like girls, all guys like different things in their women. Don't conform to one particular image unless you want to. Be your own person, and the right person for you will come along. You might be in for a bit of a wait, like I am, but it'll all be worth it in the end.

[FastTodayLoseTomorrow]

As a guy, I want a girl who is confident with herself. As long as she is healthy and happy with herself then I don't care too much. I tend to be more attracted to athletically thin girls myself, but that is just a personal preference. I have never turned down a girl with curves and I think most guys would agree they are very sexy.

[RainbowEyes]

It differs between guys what they want, it's lucky for me my guy likes skinny girls but it's not all to do with appearance.
Most guys I think would prefer a sweet girl who's not too overbearing, but not too shy either.
But of course, it really is different between all guys. You can't really generalize.
Remember that guys don't just want another male friend, they want to be able to talk to you and confide in you but they probably won't want you to be 'one of the guys' because, let's face it, if they did, they'd just go find another man friend .
They want a nice, sweet girl they can take home to their parents, protect and take care of, but at the same time talk to and have fun with, that's what I think .

[xXxLonelyxDayxXx]

hey there im a 16 yo guy from australia, in all honesty guys are different i got a mate who goes out with a chick sleeps with her and moves on in a week. me, im different, ive got my eyes set on this 1 girl i work with, i only told her today after 6 months (im shy) and i donno, but i want someone to love, go out with, have fun, i couldnt care if sex came into it in even after a few months im not one of them 1 night stands guys or anything (im in for the long run), id be happy with just having her around to love and look after and make her feel wanted and id hope she felt the same

-shannon

[hannahPROana]

I figure that, just like girls, all guys like different things in their women. Don't conform to one particular image unless you want to. Be your own person, and the right person for you will come along. You might be in for a bit of a wait, like I am, but it'll all be worth it in the end.

Totally agreed! There's not one specific formula that guys will always want. If you just be yourself, there will be a guy who will want you just for who you are. You just have to wait.

[blah]

different guys like different things in different girls
there isn't one set thing guys like, you'd be surprised how far off you are in thinking slim, tall, tan and blonde is the ideal. some guys like blondes, some brunettes, tall girls, short girls, curvy girls, fat girls..yes there are plenty of guys who prefer a chubby girl, petite girls, black girls, asian, latin, white, outgoing, shy, funny, athletic, artistic, girly, bitchy, sweet, smart, big boobs, small boobs, it's different for everyone, and some guys aren't too picky..there just has to be that chemistry

be yourself, try and stay healthy and be happy and somewhat confident and you will find a guy who likes you for that and more

[Sativa]

What I have discovered through experience is that guys who want the one night stand are typically your douche bag sports loving beer drinking dumbass. They also prefer skinny girls for the brag appeal.

However.
Those shy, quiet type of guys like their women curvy. They usually aren't looking for brag appeal they are looking for a good girl to keep, AND is super hot.