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  1. 09-24-2014 #1
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    Default Don't have the guts to tell him

    So tonight my husband pointed out that I had gained abit of weight over the last few weeks (he has no idea how sick I am at all I seem to still have that little control of the fact no one knows) and I'm pretty much just caving in I don't know how to take it in a good way I'm just totally freaking out in my head I feel like I have lost control I don't have the courage to come clean with him I have been trying to recover alone but it's one step forward 10 steps back

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    I would just calmly ask him why he felt the need to make that comment—its needless and insensitive. Even if he didn't know about your suffering with ED, surely any idiot knows that weight gain is the worst thing to point out to anybody, particularly women in this society?!
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    Could he have meant it in a positive way?

    Him: "You've filled out nicely."
    ED Brain: "HE SAYS I'M FAT...FUCK FUCK FUCK"

    For anyone wanting to talk more openly about eating disorders, /r/fuckeatingdisorders exists.

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