I'm looking to hear from someone who is married or in a romantic relationship with a partner who has bipolar. My boyfriend of 2 years is bipolar and had a recent breakdown. I've been taking care of him but it is so difficult, I forget and lose myself. Now I love him very much but I'm scared this will happen again, since he does not want any help. He says he will comply if it happens again..I don't think it's fair to have me waiting to see if it will happen again and I'll deal with the chaos. We are Seriously thinking of marriage and I'm looking for advice from those experiencing a similar situation.